It doesn’t even matter if it’s true past a certain point - if you’re doing well for yourself and others aren’t, according to some people, you’re at fault. Is this fair? Hell no. Is this the way things are? Sadly. The downside to the freedom of this community is that bad apples work their way into the bushels, so this is one of the hurdles we as a community have to work with when fetish making this great site what it is. The bottom line is that people that don’t japanese like you for seemingly random reasons exist. Trolls, haters, whatever you want to call them (though I hate using the word hater myself). Deal with it. 4. Be Polite A better general statement is just to be a good person. This includes being humble, being calm, and being polite. Politeness goes a long way, and can really make a good impression. For example, remembering that negative comments, at the end of the day, come from people. Whenever people are leaving negative comments, it isn’t a massive conspiracy coming from bots with nothing better to do. It comes from people with their own feeling and motivations. And you’re a bit knowledgeable about that I’m sure - you write about people and what makes them horny. Why is anger any different to ascertain? Another part of being polite is doing as much as you can to prevent that anger from occurring, without hampering your style. Don’t worry, I’m not advocating for walking on eggshells - I’m known to some as a notorious asian hardass who is ready to tear down a story. That’s my style, I’m hyper-critical with everyone, even myself. I rarely like what I write, and I rarely go back to the same story again after I’ve reviewed it. At the same time, I try to practice making my tone more objective than ‘mean.’ There are still ways I can improve on this, and I’m always learning. Even if your style is blunt, working on minimizing the meanness will earn you some allies on this site, and considering the site runs on community, that is incredibly valuable. Even in your own stories - a few of my compatriots try to leave politics out of their stories entirely because they know how polarizing it can be. If I ever do include politics in my story, I’ll always want to keep the forum as open as possible and I’ll never want to slam another way of thinking as long as they’re not infringing on the rights of others. As weird as this may sound, race is another issue. I have an Asian-American friend that writes erotica in her spare time, but she steers clear of this site because a few too many people and the way they write Asian characters makes her feel uncomfortable and unwelcome, the way they write about ‘slanted eyes’ and ‘yellow skin’ every chapter, and in some authors’ cases, every time they bring up Asian characters. I’m not gonna make a debate about stereotypes versus racism here, that’s a whole other essay entirely, but since it made my friend stop coming to the site it’s worth pointing out. And that speaks to something larger - I understand the fetishization of other races, other schools of thought, trans people, all that jazz, but as soon as you make a good majority (or even as few as multiple) of amateur those people themselves uncomfortable to even be here, you’re doing japan something wrong, and you’re not considering their reactions and well-being as much as you could be. Politeness goes a long way, it earns you connections, and going too far to reject considering other people prevents new authors from even wanting to come here. That probably also means missing out on potential readers. Sure seems like everyone on the site would benefit from all of us working to be kind, doesn’t it? 5. Be Somebody This section is aimed at myself more than anyone else. In the past I’ve taken to great lengths to make sure no one knows anything about myself, but I feel as though at this point that’s a mistake. First of all because one particular reader found me out anyway so clearly if people want to they will, but also because if one wants to be a person on this site they first need to… be a person on this site. I’m not asking for a postal code or social security number or anything. As I walked in, I noticed Jeff and another guy sitting in the living room, having a few beers. Niky was already sitting on my dick and taking him all the way inside her asshole, she just laid on my chest and raised her legs open for Mariana to fuck her with the vibrator in her pussy. "Okay." “Oh fuck.” Rick mutters as he takes in the sight. He kissed the corpse passionately for several minutes, running his hand over her cheek, through her long black hair. She rode me like a cowboy until I shot my load inside her. I asian parted his closed mouth and slid my tongue into him. John and I amateur were fetish in guy heaven. "Thurston, it gives me pride to know that because of me, you have a large tent pitched up underneath your japanese garments. She paraded about boldly in her beautiful wedding gown as the crowd cheered her on. After a few kisses on her pussy, I position my dick in front of her pussy again, and slowly push my japan dick inside. She was down for the count. “Hurry up Harry. “Oh, Master, please it hurts. “Oh Yes. Was it a turn on? Finally I had enough and just pulled the sheet off of us and straddled on top of her.” “They raised you up as a hero, and I’ve held you up on that pedestal. spread her legs wide.